Thy Will be Done

I've been looking forward to going to my church ALL week, because I visited another church last week and I've missed mine. I've also been sick all week, I've been able to function but still sick. I went to the doctor and got some antibiotics yesterday, took one this morning and got so sick that I can barely move to eat or drink. I was so mad! All I wanted to do was get up and go to my house of worship... Before I got sick I was in the shower,praying that God would have his way in my life today. And as I take a step out of my situation, I think on that. If I prayed for God to have his way and now I'm not able to have my way...that's fine. Obviously there is a reason why he allowed this to happen. Although my intentions are good, there is something he may be protecting me from or some reason I may need to be still, and in bed to receive. So, the moral of the story is...when you tell God to have his way, know his way may not be your way and trust him! Have an amazing day! Love you lots ;-)

Beating the odds

There are so many times where the odds are stacked against me but somehow by the grace of God, I continue to make it! Its amazing how far I've come..how strong my faith has gotten. Yet and still there is another, greater more deeper level of commitment to God that I must reach. With this in mind, I decided to sign up for a class at my church that focuses on having a purified love life with God at the center of it. At the age of 24, I'm looking forward to a life long relationship that does not end in divorce. But with the world being as it is...the reality of that is less than 50%. I refuse to get married if it'll end in divorce, what's the point? Having that in mind, I must do something different. Something more solid and realistic. As I look around me, the only relationships that have lasted and continue to last are those of the few family members I have that are sold out Christians. I'd be a fool to say that's a coincidence.
The point here is this...my decision to get my life right now, will determine who I marry and how it will work out. Instead of doing things the way we've all been raised to ( being the hollywood, media influenced way) I'm going to do it God's way. The beginning of this journey entails me focusing on what I can do to prepare myself for the life I want. Which includes lots of self sacrifice, and dedication. I've been reading this book "Love,Sex & lasting Relationships" by Chip Ingram. #amazingness! There is so much knowledge out there, I'd be crazy to overlook it. I refuse to create a life of instability and failure...the foundation of my future starts here! I could go on but I'll save it for another day:-) love you!
*if you are interested in discussing any of the things I talked about feel free to DM me or leave me a comment*

Jehovah Rophe: My Healer

Hola luves!
So this morning I randomly decided to text my bff, havnt talked to her in a while, just wanted to check in. She didn't respond but hours later her mom calls my mom and tells her my bff is having issues with her leg & the doctors are diagnosing her tomorrow. They think it may be cancer and may have to remove her whole leg. Well of course this is a shock to me and all I could feel was anger. Then I realized I'm angry at the devil. He messed with the wrong one this time. But I put aside my anger and decided to have a lil PT with God. See I know my faith can change things, and I know that God will use every opportunity to bring us closer to him and to get the glory! And that's what I'm banking on, because God knows I don't play when it comes to my family. So aside from the healing I already know my bff has, I too can grow closer to God through this.
When people speak of the faith they have, it doesn't come from an innate, biological place. It comes from seeing the power of God in motion, hearing testimonies and experiencing the manifestation of God's love. With that said, I already know my friend has the victory. I already know she will use this as a testimony to spread the gospel to others and I already know my praise will be even more intense from this experience. I will praise God today for her healing, I will praise God tomorrow when they give her a clean medical report and I will praise God whenever I think of his mercy and his goodness. And please understand naturally speaking there is much fear when it comes to cancer but spiritually thinking, I couldn't be afraid if I wanted to. I've seen God work too many miracles. So I stand in the face of cancer, sickness, depression, suicide, poverty and all other attempts of this world to kill people and say THIS is what FAITH looks like! Jehovah Rophe...MY Healer! Love you -)

Respectful Religions?!

Apologies for not blogging as often as I should..I am in need of a new laptop :-/
Any who...everyone is talking about the NYC Mosque situation as well as pastor Jones' desire to burn the Quran. (That's hard for me to even say.)
The issue is should a Mosque (Islamic community center) be built on 2 blocks away from the World Trade Center in NYC? Mosque leader Rauf tells CNN in retrospect he would have picked another location.
After all the drama surrounding this debate I think that statement by Rauf sums it up. There were no intents on insulting those victim to the 9/11 attacks BUT I do think that it would be respectful to relocate the mosque. As a New Yorker who was directly affected by 9/11, the terror and sorrow and fear that was in NY was unspeakable, there is no reason why those who suffered as a result of the attacks should feel discomfort again. I do not think that the mosque should forcefully be moved, I do however believe those in charge of its set up should reconsider the location. In an ideal world the location of the mosque would not matter but in our world it does... Religious tolerance is one topic that comes up, love and respect for all man kind is another. I doubt any religion would want to directly offend those who suffered in "connection" to their organization.
Another discussion is Pastor Terry Jones out of Florida who believes it is necessary to state a protest burning the Quran tomorrow in response to 9/11. This is pure ignorance and will do nothing but spark more religious tension as well as put our soldiers lives at stake. As a Pastor I believe it is your duty to be loving, respectful and Christ like. Blatantly disrespecting another religion is childish and ugly. As a Christian I believe Jesus speaks for himself, the truth is the truth and if another does not agree with Christianity that is their prerogative. It does not change the validity of it. The same goes for Islam. Pastor Jones burning the Quran will not change the events of 9/11 or the opinions of muslims towards their religion.
These are simply my opinions, I would love to hear yours. Feel free to comment!

My Lifter

So, I was sitting in bible study a couple of hours ago and I zoned off with this visual that was going on in my mind. A man was walking down a road carrying every belonging he possessed. He kept dropping items while trying to balance it all...a man came up to him and started taking the items, one by one. Putting them on his own back. After he grabbed the last item he invited the man to hop on his back, he wanted to carry the man on his journey....
This is what God offers us. He wants to carry you and your burdens. Why do we insist of carrying everything when God offers to carry us, lift us and guide us. His way to victorious, his way is truth, his way is LIFE abundantly. *Enjoy yourself* I love you!

Enjoying the Journey of Faith

When attempting to go to a deeper spiritual level, you will have faith building scenarios. Many test, trials, joys and hurts. All of this meant to show us that we need God, we must trust God and we can not make it without God. This also shows us God's love for us, as a whole human population as well as individually. If you reflect back on different situations, you can see where the hand of God has kept you in your life, carried you and lifted you up. Going through faith building experiences can bring out various emotions and can seem a bit overwhelming at times. But thank God for the rain after the storm.

I was driving around today with my windows down listening to inspirational music and admiring the beauty of the earth. God is beauty, God is love, God is compassion. So as you and I embark on this faith building journey called life, know that the beauty of it all is found when you surrender it all and simply trust. *enjoy yourself today*

let your light so shine

Let your light so shine for all to see... Although all may not be able to appreciate it. Sometimes it is disheartening to know everyone does not see or appreciate the gift that you give to the world. I've learned, that is their own ignorance. A person filled with love and light can see the love and light in others. Very much as the saying goes "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Those of you of the Christian faith know all that Jesus has done for mankind although many did and continue to deny him. However, the fact that everyone does not accept him does not change what he has done, or who he is. I've concluded it is necessary to let your light shine and know someone will feel the ray. Some is better than none, be encouraged! I love you :-)

Confidants

Ive never been one to understand why people feel as though they are automatically privileged to intimate details of another life. When someone confides in you it is a privilege not a right. That concept seems to be unknown to many. Perhaps I am wrong, but I do not think so. When my friends tell me personal details of their lives, I feel honored that they would tell me such things. When they tell me something that they have been keeping to themselves for some time, I feel the same way...honored. And when they tell me such things, I may be shocked. I would not be offended that I did not know previously or wonder why they did not tell me sooner. Maybe I am by myself on this one but I feel that it is rather rude to think that I am due intimate details about another. It just seems wrong to assume my friends or family owe me intimate details....idk. I have come across this often so I felt the need to address the issue...What do you think?

Dreaming the Dream

Dreams.....they are such an interesting part of being a human. I love dreams and at the same time they can bring about some of the worst disappointment. The worst thing is waking up from an amazing dream, only to find out that at this moment it is not reality. Dreams can also bring about great hope. Hope that whatever I can imagine, I can achieve.
Another amazing aspect of dreams are knowing the unknown. Taking a glimpse into the world of unconsciousness. I love knowing what my mind is really thinking about when its at ease. In psychology they tell you that dreams are the manifestation of your inner desires, thoughts, fears and feelings. In church they say dreams are the holy spirit revealing things that concern us. I have yet to fully comprehend what may just be a conglomerate of my daily thoughts and/or my hidden desires. As well as which dreams are actually God speaking to me about something.
At the end of the day, I do not believe in coincidences so I am sure that everything that finds its way into my dream is something of great importance....
*Love God & others, have an amazing Memorial Day luves!*

tracy reese luves

A great designer who knows how to keep it "simple chic". A fun, easy, cosmopolitian look. Get a glimpse of some of her designs. She has amazing necklines. I absolutely love the last pic, the blush pink look! The link to her site is http://www.tracyreese.com/c-53-summer-2010.aspx

Its a new Season

Hello luves! Its a new season...and I don't just mean weather wise. I'm not sure about you but I definitely can feel the need for some things to change in my world. With the spring and summer time things are renewed, they become new and bloom. I'm ready to be renewed, to be made new and flourish.
I always think about the saying "in order to have something new, you have to do something new" so I'm trying something new..commitment. Commitment to people, to a lifestyle to a way of thinking and being. I've always been the type of person that acts off of instinct. I do what I want and I apologize for none of it. Its very liberating, but at some point o you have to put that aside and try living with rules and regulations...or guidelines. This takes a inner change, a mental change.
With summer 2010 I'm ready to commit to a new me and an pledge to live my life within certain guidelines that will compel me to succeed. I hope you can relate to this and possibly be inspired to try a new thing. A great thing, a life changing thing. Trust God and love hard!

loving through the pain

If I had one wish, it would be to heal the world of all its pain....
There are too many hurting people, some of which deserved none of it. I met a beautiful girl through a friend of mine. She is gorgeous, one of the prettiest girls I've ever met. We all had lunch and she just started spilling her life story. She had been molested and beaten severely by her father her entire childhood. Only later to be in other abusive relationships.
I've been told she is a liar and highly competitive, always trying to have one up on someone else. (Much of which stems from jealously, not knowing her inner pain) All of what I've seen, I now understand where her behavior comes from. She, like many of us...are broken. Its a miracle she made it through all she had a has been through. At the end of the day I just want to help her in any way to continue to succeed in life. I've always had a support system and that has been the biggest blessing. Having the opportunity to be that for some else is all I desire. Many people do not have the desire to help anyone else. Our culture encourages us to be self centered. At the end of the day, if the only person benefiting from your life is you...there is a problem.

In order to be the change, you have to be the change. I refuse to let what others say about another keep me from seeing the person for who they are....a human being.
I desire love, therefor I love. *God Bless*

When is enough, enough?!

So this guy Ive been talking to for almost 2 years and I ended things today. And yes, I did it over text! who cares?! lol He wanted to take things to the next level (marriage) and I'm still refuse to call you my boyfriend! Needless to say we were not on the same page.
I knew from day one we were not truly compatible but he was sooooooo good to me. The best guy Ive ever been involved with. However, in the back of my mind I always knew I wouldn't be able to give him my heart because he didn't have the entire package of what I wanted in my end all guy. So the moral of my story is don't waste your time or anyone else's...its just wrong. Ive learned that I can tell within 12 mins of talking to a guy whether he is marriage potential or not. I have to learn how to stop doing the here and now thing and get serious, like immediately. *Never settle* love you ;-)

Soulmates

So I was twitter today (as I frequently am) and I ran across a tweet saying soulmates went out with Eve and the garden...for some reason that just didnt sit right with me. Maybe Im a hopeless romantic, foolish or simply hopeful. I believe in soulmates. Ive experienced it in both friendships and romantic relationships. I think it is possible to find someone who shares a similar soul. Someone who makes you feel as though forever is attainable, someone who makes you feel as though you belong somewhere in this world, someone who knows what you are thinking before the thought processes, someone who was created to share your space. So yes, it is hard for me to think that soulmates do not exist...I believe that God gives us choices and I believe that there is more than one person for everybody. However, I also believe that you can find someone that fits you like a glove and vice versa, friendship and relationship wise. I have a friend that I met 10 years ago and we have been like sisters ever since. When we first met we hung out daily, and never got into an argument. People used to say they didnt know one without the other, we complemented each other so well. I always call her my soulmate, to this day I would give up anything for our friendship. Then I met another friend who seemed like an angel sent from above, we were just so similar and so compatible. It isnt hard to find a friend or a lover but it is hard to find someone who you feel was created just for you.
* I believe in soulmates and I hope each of you find yours and never let them go :-) *

The Slick Slayer

Last nite I talked to a good friend who told me out of nowhere that she was admitting herself into rehab in the morning. It was so unexpected and sad. I had no idea she was using, at all. I mean we hang out everyday almost and I had no idea. When she told me it crushed my heart, but I was excited for her to go to rehab and get her life together....
Im 23 years old and have a close family member who has struggled with drugs since I was born. So this issue is very close to my heart. I have seen families torn a part, houses and cars lost, death threats, tears poured... all over drugs. I do not think the average person truly understands what drugs do to people. Its not just about the user but the family and friends that suffer the most. Im sure many of you have seen celebrity rehab on VH1 or even a "crackheads" roaming the streets. But even that can barely capture the pain and devastation that drugs can cause. I have literally had my life ruined from someone else's addiction. To the point that its hard to get a car, house or even job due to debts accrued because of someone else's addiction. Not to mention when children are involved ....thats the saddest part.
The only positive thing about this is that there is hope! Not just rehab or 12 steps but real, eternal, instantaneous hope! GOD...enough said. My family member who struggled with drugs for 23 years is finally clean. It is literally a MIRACLE. You know how sometimes you question if God is real or if he is just someone your parents told you about to ensure you behave well? Well,...HE's real. If I never knew it before I know it now. The fact that my family member is clean and is happy and productive and inspiring is amazing. You have to understand, in therapy they tell you "once an addict, always an addict" NO SIR! That is a lie because when God says its over, its OVER. My family member finally made the choice to let God heal him and God did. Now they call me up with inspiring words and scriptures...wow! I say all this to say, no matter how appealing, how bored you may be, how sad you may be, drugs are no joke. Its for suicidal purposes only! For those who struggle..when you are serious about being free, you will be. Just reach out and touch HIM, HE is awaiting you. Love you all :-)

In our weakness

Are you willing to die for your dreams? For your goals? For you're God?! You may not physically be without life but emotionally life as you now know it can die. It can transform into something completely different. Does that scare you? If so, that fine. We fear the unknown. We have faith but that doesn't mean we are absent of some amount of fear.
Well I've been reading my fav book ...The Purpose Driven Life and I came across this .."If you want God to bless you greatly, you must be willing to walk w/a limp the rest of your life, because God only uses weak people." For some reason that made me speechless. All I wanted to do was sit and let that marinate. It may be one of the most profound things I've ever read. You know why? Because its TRUTH. There is something so bitter sweet about the truth that hurts but it also frees us. I love it! Yes we are all weak, not matter how strong we seem we all have great weaknesses as well. The fact that being weak is ok, and even pleasing to God just let's us know that he is the one we can lean on. He is the one we can depend on, his strength is made perfect in our weakness :-) love you!

Jewel Award: Tyler Perry

As I'm watching "Unsung" on TVOne featuring Tyler Perry, I realized how often good ppl are left unrecognized. I'm going to start giving out Jewel Awards for my blog. Awarding those who truly have an amazing impact on making the world a better place by sharing their blessings with other.
The first recipient will be Tyler Perry! He truly is amazing. He is talented beyond measure and has a genuine desire to help his people. Mr. Perry came from an abusive
household and struggled throughout his youth with emotional difficulties and poverty. His faith in God enabled him to persevere through it all and create an amazing career. He has put so many talented peviously unknown actors and actresses in films and plays and has illuminated their career. Mr Perry also opened his own studio in Atlanta and now has his own talk show on tvOne. He gives back to he community through various community efforts and has given hope to the hopeless. Tyler Perry has highlighted issue within the Black community that have previously been neglected. He found a way to add humor to discreetly hit on key issues. He has given Black people a sense of community and pride. We can look at a movie or play that is entertaining and not offensive to our race. We see that he is successful and shares his opportunity with countless others. I am so proud and grateful for him in the industry. Congratulations Mr. Perry! We honor you and we crown you a "Jewel" in the world.

*Go see "Why Did I Get Married Too?" In theaters tomorrow*

Handling Confrontation...

The one thing we would all like to avoid. Confrontations are never easy. They can ruin relationships, hurt emotions, get you arrested and various other unfortunate outcomes. As a maturing young woman I'm seeing this as a major issue, that we all deal with. What is the proper way to handle a confrontation?! I'm far from a fighter so that's never an option. However, I am a debater and I know how to defeat my opponent. Although, I've found that my desire is never to hurt another but to have my view understood or considered. What I've found is that some people argue for the sake of being right and some argue for the sake of reconciliation. For the complications that come along with confronting another may attempt to avoid it. That never helps it only adds onto the issue because you are then building up hostility. Its true that hurt people hurt people BUT this does not have to be the case. I've found that they key to reconciliation is not being right or having the other party to agree with you but rather to compromise. Agree that yes their feelings are real to them and yours are as well. If you truly care about reconciliation its just that, reconcile not obtaining a victory. What is my desired outcome? That's what we should consider when handling confrontations. *spread the luve*

Nobody Else Can Be Me

So, as I'm reading "The Purpose Driven Life" I feel so enlightened! Some things you know but when you read them or hear them it just sets off a light bulb. This was def one of those moments! Chapter 31 of the book talks about understanding your shape. Knowing that God made each one of us individually for a UNIQUE purpose. I find that so interesting because you always hear ppl say "I'm unique" or "I'm just a unique type of person" when in actuality we are ALL unique. No two ppl have the same personality or natural gift. Now, we may be similar in certain areas but if we think about it....why would God need me if someone else has the same thing to offer the world?! Doesn't make sense. Obviously my contribution to the world is different from yours, and vice versa. Isn't that encouraging? :-D so if you ever feel like your life is useless or the world would be better off with out you....remember, God made you for a specific reason. To fill a specific void in this amazing world! Love you :-*

One of Many Inspirations

One of my favs! Rachel Roy...absolutely chic, sophisticated, easy breezy..fashion!!

Surrounded by Love

We've all heard the saying "you are the company you keep" and this is so true! I find that we are defined by the people we choose to surround ourselves with. Our environment shapes our behavior, whether good or bad.

In recent months I've had to really evaluate those I chose to hang around. I've always chosen to be around good ppl but what I've realized is that though ppl may be good, they are not necessarily good for me. Some truly loved and valued my friendship and others did not. My personality has always been unique and not everyone can appreciate that. For me, my decisions were that of love. I love myself enough to only surround myself with those who loved,gave and appreciated as I did. As soon as I let go of the unneeded, amazing people came my way.

Friendship is a beautiful opportunity, and it should be handled as such. So I say to you, only surround yourself with ppl who love,enhance,complement and adore you! You are a gift, to be handled as a jewel! Love you ;-)

Investing in your mind

I was watching Mike Murdock one Sunday and he taught me one of the most important lessons ever. The importance of investing in your mind. This is something that I've heard in fly by convos, but nothing that I ever really thought about. I've loved and valued education all of my life, but to be honest....I've forgotten most of it! Mike Murdock said, I would never invest more in the clothes in my closet than what I invest on my mind. That struck something in me! Probably because I spend all my disposable income on clothes! (Smh) However, after hearing that message it changed everything. I have made up in my mind that I will feed my mind as it is my body and soul. It will take priority over ALL material desires. For this is the one thing that can not be taken from me!
Now you may spend $ on cd's, cars, electronics,etc but please remember that your mind is the nucleus of your life. Retirement, 401k, stocks and bonds are fine, but prioritize...invest in your mind. Feed it properly, read, study,learn! Love you :-)

Modern Economics

Hey guys! Sorry its been a little while since I posted....here goes another read.

I was excited to see the senate was able to come together last nite to accomplish something! (Its a miracle) Apparently legislation was passed to extend unemployment benefits and fund road projects totalling $10 Billion. This is greatly needed to simply carry over many Americans until new jobs are created. I have the link to a CNN article that goes into detail about the senate and the bill (http://m.cnn.com/primary/HqVknZ-iUjDo8zriu). Take a looksee and educate yourself on this matter.

I was talking to a good friend of mine who works for a congressman about the state of the economy,congress, republicans vs democrats, etc. It is really sad to see that our legislatures truly care more about personal gain,party affiliation and sabotage, than actually assisting their constituents. Its rather disgusting. Please understand that if the United States were really united, we would not be in the economical crisis that we are. Many bills are not passes simply because of the person introducing it. No matter if the bill could benefit millions of people or not. I love America and I truly have pity on it. I pray, we as a people can pull together, and fight for what's just. I have hope that America will rise again! A internal change will be necessary to do so!

A Change is Gonna Come

I was def planning out my fashionista post but due to tech limitations... that will wait....plus this is better! :-)


Ok, so we all have things that we desire to be different in our lives. We all would prefer to edit our stories to be a little bit more to our liking. However,what I've realized over the past few years is that your life,your path,your story is just as it is suppose to be. Now of course we have all made mistakes and been exposed to things perhaps we could have avoided...but that too is what makes life,life. The saying "everything happens for a reason" is not just a saying. It is the TRUTH! Trust me, there have been numerous situations that I could not understand. Many times I felt as though life was crazy for no rhyme or reason. However, it has all made me who I am now, who I am meant to be. Without those experiences I would not have the same mentality, understanding, wisdom and faith that I currently have. I say all this to say to you, stay strong, stay hope[full] and do not be discouraged! The change that you desire is VERY soon to come. As long as you are allowing for your current situation to teach you a thing or two, you will move forward to the change that you desire! Luve you lots :-)

Familiarity breeds complacency

Many times we get sucked into the "now". Unfortunately, that can keep us from dreaming,hoping and reaching for a better tomorrow. We allow for our minds to be limited, many of us can't even imagine our future because we are so distracted by our present situation. This is why it is important to keep our minds active! Whether its reading,watching educational programs or stalking the stars! Yes even celebrity obsessions can be useful in our desire to achieve success by following after those whom we admire lol.
I know a lot of us girls who tend to settle for relationships that are less than they truly desire...simply because it is familiar. The same could be said for a hair style, clothing or group of friends.
I know many people who are unhappy with their field of work but stay simply because its safe. This truly does make me sad because it shows just how little faith we have. Please do not be afraid of receiving better! Open up your mind and heart and dream, and then act. Don't be apart of the "ye of little faith" believe in yourself and your creator! Those desires were put in you for a reason. They are what make you,YOU! If no one else believes in you...you believe in yourself ;-) welcome new people, experiences and ideas!
Ps * read "Desire by John Eldredge*

Our thirst for Intimacy

Every human has a dire need for intimacy. Whether we blanket it with a bf/gf, friend, pet,sex, drugs or whatever. We all desire to feel and be felt. I was reading my fav book a lil while ago "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren and just thought about my own desire for intimacy. Its so nice to cuddle up in blankets and rest your head on a fluffy pillow or talk on the phone. Its little acts like this that show me daily how deeply we as humans desire intimacy, even from inanimate objects. After realizing to what degree we go to, to fulfill this burning desire it occurred to me that perhaps this was what God intended. He wants us to desire the connection that only he can give us. People and things can temporarily fill this void, this desire, but only he can fulfill it in its entirety. So with all that being said....I hope you, my luves are seeking the authentic intimacy that warms your heart,body and soul! Luve ya :-)

Politics: my annoying love

I grew up watching CNN and listening to talk radio (AM) it was so lame! lol These moments are the ones I shared with my father throughout most of my childhood. I remember always being excited for current events convos in class because I always knew what was going on in the world. Many people hate politics but as nasty and as complicated as it can get, it is a MAJOR part of functioning America. So from time to time I will give you some stories and my comments. Just take a looksee and see where you stand... "If you stand for nothing, you will fall for anything" -Unknown


Below is a link to an opinion piece by CNN Political Analyst Rowland Martin. I respect his opinion but do not always agree with him. This article is bout Pres. Obama taking charge in congress. Although it annoys me that Martin refers to this as "going gansta" I concur. I strongly feel as though our President is often disrespected by all sides of the government. Being a decision maker is never an easy job, however he is the American equivalent to a King. I believe it is time for him to put his fist down and go for the goal, no matter who jumps on his bandwagon or not. In regards to the recess issue in Congress, I'm sure that is a strategy to prolong voting for bills that are not in favor to the opposite side. Pres. Obama should by all means make necessary appointments during the recess to get American business handled. After all that is the point of government, right?!?
http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/02/09/martin.obama.republicans/index.html

Me the Eagle

So I've lately come to realize that my fav animal is indeed an Eagle! I feel this way because in many ways I can relate to the eagle. The eagle flys and soars above the rest of the world. An eagle has times when it is still, on solid ground but the majority of the time the eagle is seen flying. As kids many of us have said we wish we could fly. Not knowing that the act of flying can be related to the human life in an metaphoric sense. Flying occurs when we make up in our minds that we want and deserve better. Why walk,crawl or sit when we can fly. Why settle for what is, when we can have what could be? Eagles are associated with strength, prestige and the elite. I choose to be like eagles and soar, not to simply fly...but SOAR!

Loving the art of Love: My intro

Hello All!
Im uberexcited about this opportunity to share my thoughts with all of you! Im extremly candid so enjoy the ride ;-)

Valentine's Day is quickly approaching and the word LOVE is everywhere we look. However I look around at people I see and wonder if they really know, feel and understand what Love really is. It obviously is not found in a card, a box of chocolate or a teddy bear but the action of giving is where the love is found. It is an amazing thing to feel as though someone really loves you! Im 23 and have had only 1 Valentine's Day where I felt loved by a man. As I think about that is makes me feel "some kind of way". However there are MANY days that I feel love all around me. Whenever I go home and am greeted with a warm embrace and kiss on the cheek from my mother, when I talk to my nieces and nephews and when I get into the presence of my first true love, God. So to all of my luves out there who are looking for someone to show them love on Sunday....show it to others. "Be the change you want to see" Give unto others and it will be given unto you! If no one else tells you....please know that I DO LOVE YOU!! *Kisses and Blessings*